Couples Counseling

Couples Counseling in Colorado Springs, CO

“For this reason a man is to leave his father and his mother and lovingly hold to his wife, since the two have become joined as one flesh. Marriage is the beautiful design of the Almighty, a great a sacred mystery - meant to be a vivid example of Christ and his church. So every man should be gracious to his wife just as he is gracious to himself. And every wife should be tenderly devoted to her husband.” (Ephesians 5:31-33)

What Causes Conflict in Relationships?

Factors of everyday life can put an abundant strain on a relationship. Severe stressors may include resentment, infidelity, intimacy issues, lack of trust, unmet needs, and miscommunication. Stress can come from social, psychological, physical, emotional, or spiritual factors. When these problems go unresolved, or a partner is suffering from mental illness or health complications, one can feel helpless or have feelings of guilt or shame (Psalm 42:11). It is important to surrender our troubles to the Lord and trust that He will make a way through the trial (Galatians 5:24-25). Interpersonal issues in a relationship can be more common than we think, as it is often behind closed doors, but if one or more become severe and there is no resolution in sight, it may be time to seek therapy for guidance.

Communicating effectively on both parts can alleviate emotional anxiety from subjects of all kind. Couples often seek couples or marriage counseling when the relationship is at a standstill, or if they are unsure whether or not the relationship is worth salvaging. This type of therapy can benefit families with children who have been affected by relationship issues such as divorce, and confront the source of the conflict.

What are some examples of conflicts in a relationship?

• Disappointment in oneself or the relationship
• One or both partners are feeling dissatisfied
• Couples lack communication and disconnect from one another
• One or both partners feel neglected or unwanted
• A feeling of sexual unhappiness or unmet needs

What Makes a Satisfactory Relationship?

• Trust (Jeremiah 3:19-19)
• Mindfulness (Ephesians 6:18)
• Mutual Respect (Matthew 5:44)
• Communication (Proverbs 18:21)
• Loyalty (1 Corinthians 7:10)
• Humility (Proverbs 11:2)

“Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no records of being wrong. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.” (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)

When a relationship shows signs of addiction, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, and/or severe depression, seek guidance from a counselor immediately, for your safety and your partner.

Book a consultation today for Couples Counseling with Zoe Community Counseling.  Call (312) 736-2060 or book a consultation online.